As a matchmaker and dating coach who’s helped hundreds of singles find love, I want to share the exact recipe for finding lasting love. Stick to the recipe, and you will find love!
1. Learn from the past
Life happens – don’t let it get you down. Learn from the past and then move forward with dignity and a plan. Reflect, learn and then do better.
2. Know, accept and love yourself (know your value)
You can’t find love until you truly love and value yourself. Know how much you have to offer – how amazing you are. Accept your imperfections. You’re a beautiful person.
3. Keep your heart open
You can’t be guarded and find love – it doesn’t work that way. You must bring an open heart to dating. See the best in others and really connect. Share yourself openly and authentically. That will take courage, but LOVE is worth it.
4. Have strong boundaries
Insist that others treat you with the respect and kindness you deserve. Advocate for yourself – ask the tough questions. If a relationship isn’t working for you, move on. Don’t waste your time on someone who doesn’t value (and adore) you.
5. Implement a smart dating strategy
If what you’ve done in the past didn’t work, figure out a new, smarter way to date. Read a self-help book, visit a dating blog, get advice from an expert or even hire a matchmaker or dating coach. Know that different actions get different results.
6. Make a consistent effort
Never stop putting yourself out there. Even though you’re busy, make time to keep meeting new people. It may take a while, but you WILL meet “the one”.
7. Have fun
Approach dating with a positive attitude and a playful sense of fun, and that will make all the difference! When you do this, you’ll become irresistible (and you’ll enjoy life so much more). A positive attitude is so important!
8. Have faith
Things happen for a reason, people enter your life for a purpose and things have a way of working out. You’re a wonderful person, and you deserve great happiness. Hang in there – your love will show up when the time is right.
Please know I’m always here for you – to help you find that special someone.