5 Crucial Questions to Ask Yourself When You’re Looking for LOVE

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As a matchmaker and dating coach, it’s my job to ask the question, “What are you looking for in a partner?”   I’ve got to admit, sometimes the answers I get really annoy me (eye roll). If I had a nickel for every time a woman told me she’s attracted to tall men or an older man told me he wants to date significantly younger women, I’d have a truckload of nickels. Many of these same folks (the ones who only date tall or young) have wasted years in the wrong relationships dating someone they were not compatible with. And yet, after all that drama and heartbreak, they still haven’t figured it out. They’re missing the point. Here’s the thing. I’ve NEVER asked a woman, “Why is your husband a phenomenal husband?”, and gotten the answer, “Because he’s tall”! It’s time to stop focusing on qualities that won’t impact your happiness. And start focusing on getting your needs met – perhaps for the first time in your life! It’s time to go deeper.  Stop choosing...


Single Parents – When Should You Introduce The Kids?

Single Parents – When Should You Introduce the Kids? If you’re a single parent or dating one, the question, “When should we introduce the kids?”,  is an important one. A client once told me, “I don’t introduce anyone to my children until I’ve been dating them for at least a year”. While I understood she didn’t...

Do you have ONLINE DATING ADD? Don’t worry, there’s a CURE!

According to eHarmony, 40 million Americans use online dating sites. If you’re single and want to go on a date in 2017, you’ve got millions of choices, literally. And that should be a good thing. But sometimes it REALLY isn’t.  Science tells us when human beings have too many choices we often end up choosing...

The TRUTH About People Who Post Their Relationships Online

We’ve all got that friend. You know the one I’m talking about. She writes love notes to her boyfriend and posts them on Facebook for everyone to see. And she posts WAY too many lovey-dovey couple-selfies, from every possible angle. And you think, REALLY? You’re not in 8th grade making out in front of your...